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Ever felt like you need to get something of your chest?

My Texas friend Trey Gibson and I host this weekly podcast dedicated to family and parenting topics. Check out the show at The Real Family Guys Podcast Episode 17.

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We have no prepared program today. Trey and I get a couple of things off our chest. Trey and I both want to be always growing and always getting better. What we’ve found is that unless we can admit our faults and problems then we don’t have a point to grow from. One thing includes the future of The Real Family Guys Podcast. Today Trey and I discuss:

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Does the free distribution of disease-preventing measures encourage sexual activity?

My Texas friend Trey Gibson and I host this weekly podcast dedicated to family and parenting topics. Check out the show at The Real Family Guys Podcast Episode 16. You’ll find a new episode of us there every Friday.

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There has been an ongoing debate for years about condom distribution. Should we do it? Does it lead to increased sexual activity among teens? In the last few years the HPV vaccine has also been under the same scrutiny. In short, if we do these things to prevent the spread of sexually transmitted diseases, do teens see it as a green light for all sexual activity? Today Trey and I discuss:

  • We briefly look at two articles which study these topics
  • We take a look at whether sexual activity is on the rise among teens
  • We talk about when parents should talk with their kids about sex
  • We dive into what signals are sent when parents give out contraceptives
  • The physical versus emotional impacts of sex
  • What kind of language we should use with our kids about sex
  • How much we should tell them about sex (hint – we often don’t go far enough)
  • The behaviors that lead to early sexual activity
  • How to tell our kids that they can say no with confidence

References mentioned in this post:

Impact of Condom Availabilty Programs

Impact of HPV Vaccine

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The Real Family Guys Podcast on tolerance

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On one side of the scale is condoning, advocating, and promoting a behavior, lifestyle, or choice. On the other is discrimination, bigotry, or outright hatred of the same behavior. The fulcrum that balances the scale is tolerance.

My Texas friend Trey Gibson and I host this weekly podcast dedicated to family and parenting topics. Check out the show at The Real Family Guys Podcast Episode 15. You’ll find a new episode of us there every Friday.

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This discussion stemmed from an article about “National Mix It Up Day” to be held on October 30. One blogger wrote about this and had, what I felt, was a truly negative attitude towards the event. There seemed to be a lot of fear about this organization furthering a homosexual agenda. Fear is often the genesis of hate and discontent between those of differing social, racial, ethnic, and other diversity indicators. Today Trey and I discuss:

  • We briefly look at the article
  • We investigate the references made to tolerance.org and look at their site
  • We define tolerance and condoning to show the difference
  • The misconception that tolerance is interpreted as condoning
  • Where we often fail as Christians, and as humans in general
  • What lessons we teach our kids as a result of our actions
  • How we too struggle with this very real issue
  • Some Biblical foundation for how we should behave towards others

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The Real Family Guys Podcast - Teen Attitude

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Every one of us, as parents, will experience the teenage years. But what happened to the sweet little child that I used to know? Where does all of the attitude come from? What do I do about it?

My Texas friend Trey Gibson and I host this weekly podcast dedicated to family and parenting topics. Check out the show at The Real Family Guys Podcast Episode 14. You’ll find a new episode of us there every Friday.

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Sometimes when we get to the teenage years, we encounter a new person. Though they may look the same, they now have attitude. Often we are unprepared to handle this, and if we aren’t careful our conversations with them can spin out of control. There are ways for parents to address this successfully. Understanding where this attitude comes from helps tremendously. Today Trey and I discuss:

  • Our thoughts on where attitude comes from
  • Strategies for changing your response to attitude
  • Why discipline and punishment probably won’t work
  • Beginning to relate to your child as an adult
  • How commanding respect can backfire
  • What part servant and sacrificial leadership play
  • Getting your child to repeat the right behaviors

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The Real Family Guys Podcast Unplugged

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Trey and Paul – Unplugged!

My Texas friend Trey Gibson and I host this weekly podcast dedicated to family and parenting topics. Check out the show at The Real Family Guys Podcast Episode 13. You’ll find a new episode of us there every Friday.

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While we talk about a range of topics on this podcast, we are relating our own thoughts and ideas. Some of those are based on observations of others, some on data and scientific study, and some on our own personal experience. As you can imagine, we don’t have all the answers. Trey and I both have our own struggles and we wanted to be real with the audience about this. Today we will be sharing some of those struggles with our listeners.

Trey and I discuss:

  • Some listener feedback and comments
  • The ever-present clock and quantity/quality time
  • Identifying what our child needs
  • How much we should do for a child, when they can do for themselves
  • Not interacting with the kids in a positive manner
  • Getting out of “man-mode” and connecting with our family emotionally

Here are links to a couple of sites that we mentioned in the show:

Pat Flynn on A Balance Life

The Arbinger Institute

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violent video games

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Video games are cool. The true-to-life pictures are staggering and the thrill of online competition provides a huge rush. But what happens when you mix this with violence?

My Texas friend Trey Gibson and I host this weekly podcast dedicated to family and parenting topics. Check out the show at The Real Family Guys Podcast Episode 12. You’ll find a new episode of us there every Friday.

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Video games and violence. Trey and I discuss:

  • Should we let our kids play them?
  • Should we be playing them?
  • What are the ramifications?
  • Is “desensitization” real?
  • Are we over-reacting as a society?
  • How should a parent evaluate these games?
  • The top 10 most violent games, according to Parenting.com.

We referenced PluggedIn.com and commonsensemedia.org as sites that parents can use to check media reviews for their kids.

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Does your family have a case of “affluenza?” Does it seem like you have to have the newest, latest, and greatest of everything?

My Texas friend Trey Gibson and I host this weekly podcast dedicated to family and parenting topics. Check out the show at The Real Family Guys Podcast Episode 11. You’ll find a new episode of us there every Friday.

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A deep and philosophical discussion on materialism and consumerism. Trey and I discuss:

  • How I personally struggle with this
  • How society helps feed this
  • What do we do as parents to teach this behavior to our kids
  • The inherent problems with having more
  • Defining wants versus needs
  • Tips on managing the struggle and being content
  • What the Bible says about contentment

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Picture of ADHD for The Real Family Guys Podcast

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Got an ADD/ADHD kid? Do you dread school time?

My Texas friend Trey Gibson and I host this weekly podcast dedicated to family and parenting topics. Check out the show at The Real Family Guys Podcast Episode 10. You’ll find a new episode of us there every Friday.

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Today we talk about an article on back-to-school tips for parents of ADD/ADHD kids. That article, titled, 5 Back To School Tips for Your ADD or ADHD Child, relates some things parents can do to address this health concern.

Trey and I discuss:

  • My own challenges with an ADD/ADHD child
  • Trey’s observations on children and parents that he has helped
  • Each of the tips in the article
  • The importance of the parent-teacher-child relationship
  • How we’ve personally implemented some of these tips
  • And a little secret about the widespread applicability of the article

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homeschool notebook

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Ever considered homeschooling? Wonder what it’s really like?

My Texas friend Trey Gibson and I host this weekly podcast dedicated to family and parenting topics. Check out the show at The Real Family Guys Podcast Episode 9. You’ll find a new episode of us there every Friday.

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In keeping with the back to school theme, it’s Trey’s turn. He and his wife Corrie homeschool their four children. Listen today as I interview Trey and we hear about the Gibson family’s story and experience.

Some of the things we’ll cover are:
Why they chose to homeschool
The concept of “unschooling”
The concerns about social behavior
How the children learn from one another
The time commitment for both parents
What their future plans are on homeschooling

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Back to school on The Real Family Guys Podcast

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It’s back to school time!

My Texas friend Trey Gibson and I host this weekly podcast dedicated to family and parenting topics. Check out the show at The Real Family Guys Podcast Episode 8. You’ll find a new episode of us there every Friday.

Today’s topics include:

We get into the back to school routine today. Paul discusses some of his observations over the past fifteen years of sending his kids to school. Some will be obvious, others not so much, but every tip here is sure to be something that all parents can use.

Some of the things we’ll cover are:
Teachers
Clothing
Back to school supplies
Donations and classroom volunteerism
Meals
Preparing The Night Before
Bedtime
Routines and Consistency

If you like to subscribe, all of our episodes will be available alongside Trey’s outstanding podcast on iTunes, Stitcher, Zune and more.

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